Thanks very much to Carole, Rambler and Kaysii for taking the time to look for "Ella" for me, I am sure that it is Emma, b 1871.
It has made it very hard because as you know her marriage at the Parish is Ella, her Gro cert: say's Ellen, all her children's birth say Ella and on top of that her death cert say's Ella.
I have now searched more on Gertrude and it has jogged my husband's memory, he can remember visiting aunt Gert in Suffolk when he was a kid.
Gert and her husband are buried in the parish churchyard at Hessett,
Can anyone tell me if the Baptism records for St Augustine are on line so that I can see if Emma had other names as well.
Thank you again Drinda.