Hi Burlingm, and welcome to RootsChat!

If you make another two replies to this topic to bring to your post count to three, you'll have access to the Personal Message (PM) facility and can send and receive messages direct to other members.
Then you and Bundysgirlsmum and exchange information.
On that note, RootsChat doesn't allow us to post information about living or possibly living persons. This is to protect them from identity theft, spam, etc.
Could you please edit your post above using the Modify button (see the top right corner of your post) and remove your mother-in-law's name.
If you have any questions at all about RootsChat don't hesitate to ask.

Regards,
Spades
Moderator, New Zealand Board (and occasional cat herder

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