Well the ideas on here have given the spur for a fresh try - and successful!
RG9/3034 In 1861 George is a coachman at Harefield Lodge (working at the Hall, presumably) in Rochdale, now Heywood. His wife is Phillis and his son William is a groom, so he's in the right trade, even if it says he was born in Broughton Lancs not Bowdon Cheshire!
Thanks for the inspiration