Lookup request

[Clotty]

As I'm unsure about what can be asked for please feel free to tell me if I am asking something that is not allowed.
I'm looking for information about My great grandfather and his parents!
His name was:
Charles Henry Carr, he was mairried to Rose Jerrim in southampton oct 31 1882 and I have a copy of his marriage certificate which says that his father was called Thomas Carr, a mast maker and he was born about 1861
His address given on the marriage certificate was 14 Rye Terrace, which I believe was Hexam, my Father told me that he came from sunderland.
I would be very gratefull if someone could have a look at the censuse of 1861, 1871 and 1881 to see if they can spot him, I did find one entry for 1871 for a Charle Henry Carr aged 9 in New Borough Prison Hedon Rd, but that persons birthplace was east riding Yorkshire so I'm not covinced its him.
Any info would be greatly appreciated.

Clotty

[keyboard86]

Hi this looks to be him in 1861:-

Thomas Carr 22 occ Block & Mast Maker
Margaret 20
Charles H 2 months
All born Sunderland
Residing at 117, Low Street, Sunderland
Census Ref RG09/3780/87/28

This is a possible marriage Thomas Carr to Margaret Mullen Dec 1859 Sunderland 10a 559
Keyboard86

[keyboard86]

Hi again, in 1871 he is called Charley!

1871 Census

Thomas Carr 30 occ Block & Mast Maker
Margret 27
Charley 10
Mary Jane 7
Margret 5
Rebecca 2
Residing at Lilburne Street, Bishop Wearmouth, Sunderland
Census Ref RG10/5010/82/63

Keyboard86

[keyboard86]

Hi in 1881, it appears Margaret his mother has died:-

1881 Census

Thomas Carr 38 occ Mast Block Maker b Sunderland
Ellen 23 Wife b St Mary Extra, Hampshire
Charles 20 (Transcribed as 30 on FindMyPast) occ Caulker & Cutter (Ship builder)
Margaret 15
Rebecca 13
Hannah 10
Thomas 7
Ellen 1 b St Mary Extra
Residing at Itchen, St Mary Extra, Hants
Census Ref RG11/1217/104/28

Marriage Thomas Carr to Ellen Jerrim June 1878 Southampton 2c 69
Age out a little, but their is this death:-

Margaret Carr Sept 1876 S. Stoneham 2c 32 aged 33 (South Stoneham covers Itchen and St Mary Extra)
Keyboard86

[keyboard86]

Hi again Clotty just spotted who the wife was of Charles H Carr it was a Jerrim the same as the wife of Thomas! So Thomas and Charles H married the daughters of this 1871 family:-

Henry Jerrim 46 occ Sailor in ?? & Fisherman
Ellen 45
Ellen 13
Mary Ann 11
Jane 9
Rose 7
Edwin F 2
Residing at Itchen, St Mary Extra, Hants
Census Ref RG10/1196/57/21
Keyboard86

[Clotty]

Thanks for that, my father always said there was some sort of controversy about Charles and Rose's Marriage, but it looks like it was his father who was a cradle snatcher!
Thanks again

Clotty