Hello Hemmum
I am so pleased to read your post. Lily Trigg was my husband’s grandmother, her daughter Joan is my husband’s mother. From what you said about the military side of the family I think perhaps I have got my William Black’s confused.
The family ‘story’ always spoke of a strong military background but I could not find much evidence of that. The family also believed that William’s first wife died in childbirth but knew no details.
This is what I have on ‘my’ William Black.
He was born in Glasgow, question mark over the date.
31 Dec 1890 (aged 22) he married Mary Carson Thomson (aged 18) in Glasgow. The certificate shows his father as Henry Black, stationer’s assistant (deceased) and mother Isabella Black m.s. Greer.
I believe they had three children - Henry 23/8/1891; Mary 17/5/1893; and Isabella 14/5/1896 but I have not been able to trace them on any census records etc.
4 May 1907 Mary died in childbirth. I cannot find any ongoing record of the child so it may not have lived.
3 July 1920 William married Lilian Trigg (mostly referred to as Lily). William is recorded as 41 years and widower, and his father Henry Black, stationer (deceased); Lily as 30 years, spinster. At that time they lived at 12 Smith Street, Shoeburyness. S. Trigg and A Trigg were witnesses at the marriage. William and Lily went on to have 8 children, the 7th being Joan Mary, Tony’s mother.
William’s occupation at the first marriage was ‘saw miller’ and at the second 'wood machinist' - no mention of military involvement. Also on the marriage certificates there is a difference of 10 years in calculating his year of birth, 1869 and 1879.
I wonder now whether I have two different Williams here, although the same father details in both certificates would discount that.
Can I ask what relation Lily is to you?
Anne