Hi ,
Many thanks for looking, she actually died in the West Kent General Hospital, but as she was living in Hunton with her husband and children I thought she would probably have been buried there as her family stayed there until 1898 and then the children went to live in Loose with their grandmother as their father was ill, I have tried Loose , Linton and B. Monchelsea burials, but nothing there either, so I am really stuck now!!
Yes Startup was her married name , her maiden name was Coulter. From the census she is recorded as born in East Farleigh.
Petles