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It appears you only have two Gibbs named either Stephen or Charles born in 1840 +/- 2 years whose births were registered in Abingdon to choose from.
The 1841 and 1851 census has a Stephen Gibbs in the household of William and Ellen Gibbs in Culham. Stephen is then in Hougham, Kent listed as a soldier. We have Stephen in Canada in 1871. I couldn't find him on the 1881 census however his military discharge papers from 1879 did say his intended place of residence was Belfast, Ireland. He may have still been in Belfast in 1891 given the information in the next paragraph.
I went to the website Emerald Ancestors (
http://www.emeraldancestors.com/) which is a pay site that has BMD and census information for Northern Ireland and saw a marriage for Charles Stephen Gibbs to an Elizabeth in Belfast in 1893. Unfortunately I don't know what her surname was because you need to pay to get that information. Perhaps getting a copy of that marriage will confirm the name of Stephen's parents.
The Charles Gibbs whose birth was registered in 1841 in Abingdon is on the 1851 census with his parents George and Elizabeth. He's listed as a lodger (20, carpenter, born Culham) in St Pancras, Middlesex on the 1861 census. He's still in St Pancras on the 1871 census with his wife Sarah and two children. He and his wife and children are in London on the 1881 census and in Wimbledon on the 1891 census. He's still in Wimbledon in 1901 listed as married but his wife isn't with the family however she is listed with him on the 1911 census still in Wimbledon.
Since the Charles who was born in Culham in 1841 is still alive in 1911 and your Charles Stephen Gibbs died in 1900 in Abingdon it seems Charles can be eliminated so it's looking pretty good that the parents of Charles Stephen Gibbs are William and Ellen Gibbs.
Jacquie
Canada: Patterson, Brown, Haidenger/Heidinger, Meyer, Johnston(e), Gorsuch, Kitchin/Kitchen
United States: Patterson, Smith, Brown, Vance, Bower(s), Newberry, Best, Love, Gorsuch
England (Northumberland): Brown, Whitfield, Henderson
Scotland (Glasgow, Edinburgh, Fife, East Lothian): Johnston(e), Bell, Galloway, Campbell, Robertson, Williamson, Thomson, Crawford
Germans from Russia: Haidenger/Heidinger, Meyer, Meach, Lorenz