Just re-read all the posts on here. Happy to say I'm still in touch with the daughter I had who was adopted. We see each other occasionally, she now lives partly abroad and partly in the UK to be near her aged mother, but we keep in touch frequently via WhatsApp etc. Sadly her adopted father died a few years ago and when my husband and I went to his funeral, I was introduced to her brother, sister in law and loads of friends who all knew about me. I felt as though I had a second family.
Lizzie
ps. Ironically, as Doriscourt seemed to have links to Jewish and Catholic GPs,although I didn't know it at the time, my g.grandfather turns out to have had a Jewish mother!