I don't think many mothers gave birth in stirrups in the 1950s and 1960s. I certainly didn't, not at Doriscourt, or later when I had my other "legitimate" children in the 1960s. It is true that in all maternity homes and hospitals, babies were only brought to mothers for feeding and then went back to the nursery, I know today's mothers wouldn't like that, but we did at least get a good rest so that when we went home we were fit and well and able to care for our babies, most of whom had got into a routine of 4 hourly feeding, rather than the feeding on demand that most mothers are used to today.
I trained as a midwife in the 1970s and babies stayed with the mothers then, (so much earlier than the 1980/90s Joan67) although they were taken away to the nursery at night so the mothers could get a good sleep. Some mothers wanted to be woken to feed their babies during the night, others were happy for their babies to be given a bottle during the night. It made absolutely no difference to the babies.
I've already sent a PM to Sarah regarding the letter from "A" with more of my side of the Doriscourt story but I don't want to post it on here.
Sarah - I don't know why I called "A" Anne, I was feeling a bit under the weather the other day (I think I'd had food poisoning after a meal out and was just recovering) and must have just read it as Anne. No wonder you were surprised, you must have thought I knew who had written the letter.
Lizzie