Hi Ruth,
Thanks for that. I have managed to locate Patrick's family in Ireland so I have accumulated quite a bit of info on his siblings & grandparents. Even to the extent of some photos of gravestones. Unfortunately, my grandmother remains a mystery. My sister tells me that she was resident in TAFTA in Durban at the time of her death. She definitely wasn't buried at Stellawood Cemetary - they only have records of my grandfather Patrick William & uncle William John Larmour. The crematorium need exact dates of death to check on their records. The going is really slow! Thanks for your input - much appreciated. Regards, Ellen