I think this would be a good contender, but I am also having trouble finding her as a child.
Helen NEVANS
Christening Date: 13 May 1839
Christening Place: Newcastle-Upon-Tyne, Northumberland, England
Father's Name: John NEVANS
Mother's Name: Mary
https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:J7PB-F6JIf you do a catalogue search for that film number you will find that it was a Catholic baptism:
https://www.familysearch.org/search/catalog/783862?availability=Family%20History%20LibrarySome of Ellen's children's birth regs have already been discussed, I think this is a full list...
1862 Mary Hannah Bond HAYWOOD (mmn JOHNSON)
1864 Alice BOND (mmn JOHNSON)
1867 May BOND (mmn EVANS)
1871 Thomas William BOND (mmn NEVANS)
1874 Lilly BOND (mmn NEVINS)
1878 Rose BOND (mmn NEVINS)
1881 Robert Edward BOND (mmn NEVINS)
Perhaps her mother had remarried to a JOHNSON?
Debra
