You mention no dates for the Maria you seek. Could she be Maria Graham, daughter of William and Esther, who was born on 7 December 1863 and baptized at St. Johnston Presbyterian Church on 21 August 1864? She married William Vance on 26 May 1881, and in June they emigrated, arriving in New York City on 12 July, and from there went to Wheeling, West Virginia.
Maria’s brother, William John Graham, also went to Wheeling, but returned to Ireland in November 1898. Their sister, Esther Jane “Jessie” Graham, and half-sister, Elizabeth “Lizzie” Chambers, also went to Wheeling.