Hi Carole
The 1911 census shows them married 26 years. They're living in St Leonard's Street, Victoria, Co Down, Ireland. They moved there between 1899 and 1900.
One of their children has Oakes as a middle name, which may provide a clue. However, in 1882 they would have been 15 and 16. Not impossible but still quite young.
I am trying to avoid buying birth certificates until I've exhausted all the online possibilities as I am researching for a friend.
Tara