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Offline Nick29

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Re: Ancestry Trees-Public/Private?
« Reply #36 on: Wednesday 04 April 12 13:23 BST (UK) »
I think people sometimes develop what I call "My dad's crossword puzzle syndrome"  :)

My dad used to love doing crossword puzzles, but he wasn't terribly good at them, and he didn't have much patience.  So, in the early stages he would get the majority of the answers right, but as he got towards completion he would tend to make up words that fitted, even if the words didn't actually exist !  Of course, the right words didn't fit because he'd made mistakes on some of the other earlier answers.

I think this also goes on in genealogy.   People start off OK, working from the certificates that they may well have laying around the house (like parents' marriage and/or death certificates), and if they have chosen to make a small investment, they may also get some more information from the censuses.  By then they will have told a lot of friends and family about their genealogical success.  Then, they hit a brick wall or other problem.  Experienced researchers at this point would back-track to see if a mistake had crept in, but they plough on regardless.  Faced with a brick wall, and a host of friends and relatives asking about their progress, they do what my dear old dad did - they fudge the facts, just to find people who fit.

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Re: Ancestry Trees-Public/Private?
« Reply #37 on: Wednesday 04 April 12 16:36 BST (UK) »
I think people sometimes develop what I call "My dad's crossword puzzle syndrome"  :)

My dad used to love doing crossword puzzles, but he wasn't terribly good at them, and he didn't have much patience.  So, in the early stages he would get the majority of the answers right, but as he got towards completion he would tend to make up words that fitted, even if the words didn't actually exist !  Of course, the right words didn't fit because he'd made mistakes on some of the other earlier answers



 ;D ;D This made me laugh so much because my Nan does it!!!
We buy her puzzle books and when she has finished with them before recycling them we take a sneaky look - it brightens up the dullest of days!!

My tree has always been set to private, I love it if I can help out in anyway, but as everyone has said,it is a hobby, and when you tot up expenses like subscriptions, certificates,petrol costs,archive printing costs, it does mount up. I can fully understand the frustration.

bagpuss  :)

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Re: Ancestry Trees-Public/Private?
« Reply #38 on: Saturday 13 April 13 16:43 BST (UK) »
Hi Guys My tree with ancestry is public -  I did have it private -   

I always ask someone if I can have a copy of a picture or that if it is required and I have found many family members contacting me through it as well.. I did have a couple of times when I didnt know how to use the SHARE button - I do now...   and it always shows where the pictures or documents originates from..

I am considering making it private - because I have found that I am the only one whom has gone way way back,  through genuine hard research...   and some have copied as their own and that makes me sad..  But the contacts that have come to me or I can go to is amazing,  so where do you draw the line..  learn and share? or be alone?    Sharing I have found is a boon - but I wish I could make 'my work' my own -  or shown to be 'my own' if you understand me?   I have no qualms with sharing never have -   but to 'take' someones work -  that you didnt want to know in the 1st place,  until proven, I think is a but cat!   I wish you could lock it somehow...or mark it someway-   but there we go..  research is thus I suppose... ::)

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