Gee, you've jogged my memory with that reply. I do recall now, hazily, some issue of one thing being owned, not the other. Vague as my recall is, it may have been that the house was owned but not the land & this was what my father was angry about. I wish I could remember.( like everyone, I now wish I'd paid more attention to family information discussions in my youth). All I know is that his brother & sister simply walked away from the whole thing empty handed to live in a home close by they owned outrite.
I was unable to discern from the census who owned anything.
ps - thank you for your replies, this site is truly a gem - I've learned so much from it over the years.