Thanks for looking, but I don't think the Netherbury one is him. My Richard's wife Susannah died in 1813 in Tilshead, and he remarried, in 1841 he was in Bourton aged 65 (slightly underestimating his age there, took me ages to find him, but it is definitely him). Perhaps the family were from further afield originally. Many thanks for your time.
Twywell