Thinking out loud is permitted, its called brainstorming, thats what rootschatters do so well.
Emily's mother wasn't present at the wedding, her permission was given in writing. That makes me think that Emily cant have been very old when her father died, if Edward Charles was her father.
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Looking for Annie Stokes death in NSW, the only one in 1933 is at Glebe, parents William and Elizabeth.
Annie Rowlands birth as Elizabeth Ann, there are two possibilities,Elisa Ann Rowland at Avoca 18667, parents William and Elizabeth.
Elizabeth Rowlands at Cambrian H in 1868, parents John and Johannah.
My geography is letting me down here, are either of those near Braidwood Victoria? Is there a Braidwood in Vic?