Dear Tony,
Thank you ever so much for your kind offer, I would be extremely grateful if you could take a look at the 52nd Muster Rolls, even if it just rules out this other William out it would still move me forward.
My William Aldous was born 1836 in Colchester (although I have no baptism). He had three older brothers (Thomas, Alexander and Charles) and his parents were Thomas and Susannah Aldous. Thomas was a whitesmith, and a tailor at various times. Thomas disappeared around 1839, shortly followed by Susannah disappearing from the records as well. The four boys grew up in Colchester Workhouse, and William is there in both the 1841 and 1851 censuses.
On 16 June 1856 William married Lydia Barron at St Leonard's, Lexden, Colchester. He was a labourer at the time. On 12 February 1857 their son Charles William was born in Lexden. Birth certificates and baptisms differ on William's occupation at this time, between a baker and a labourer.
William then disappears. In 1861 Lydia says she is a widow, and Charles William later claims his father was an army corporal. I believe he might have joined the army, and possibly died abroad. Although I have checked the obvious sources I have found no record of his death, but from what I gather it is possible it was missed.
Which brings me to William Aldous, Pte in 52nd Oxfordshire Light Infantry. He qualified for the Indian Mutiny medal and was apparently wounded 27th August at Delhi. I have no proof he is connected to my William, but I can't find a service record or any other records about him to rule him out, so I believe the muster rolls are the only place to find out more about him. As we know he was wounded in August I'd suggest that the 2nd or 3rd quarter of muster rolls for 1857 would be the place to look.
I can't tell you how grateful I am for your offer of help, William is the biggest mystery on my tree, and anything that moves me closer to working out what happened would be wonderful.
Many thanks,
Elissa