I was reading some of the posts from January 2010 which said that finding information on graves at Abney Park was rather difficult. I am visiting in a couple of days and hope the information I have been given is accurate. I also e-mailed a number of times, but without success until I sent to the link for the Abney Park Trust, which resulted in me getting a reply from a researcher and who answered my next email straight away. I know that Abney Park is somewhat of a wildlife reserve now and that the older graves are probably quite hard to read, but the researcher said that he had found the grave I want, so hopefully I will find it too. I will keep you posted as others might also want to visit. The grave I am visiting has 7 relations in it dating from 1870, so fingers crossed.
Lyndersgreen