Hello Hilary,
Just to advise you that the Cumnor PRs (ex OFHS) reveal that Charles was bapt;
12-10-1862 s/o Charles * & Jane , Labr, Cumnor
and from the Wytham PRs (also ex OFHS) show this burial;
1933 #443, Charles Neale, Wantage Rd, Wallingford, Dec 26, age 71
*Buried 23-7-1904 Cumnor aged 79
I only mention this as I see you have been quoting 1863 as his birth.
I believe you may already have this info.
Alan