OK Mike finally came through with a little more info - we now have the married name of the daughter Sarah.................maybe we can work backwards.....
http://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php/topic,47875.0.html1871 census
71 (no address) Kensington London
Richard J Hickman age 39 Freehold and house proprietor b. St Marylebone
SARAH E " age 38 B. New York
Walter RJ " age 12 City of London School b. Marylebone London
Herbert ? " age 8 Nottinghill Prep School b Marylebone
Reginald ? " age 6 Nottinghill Prep School
Elizabeth ME " age 3 St Marys Abbot Kensington
Jessie JH " age 1 St Marys Abbot Kensington
Mary Russell age 22 Cook b. Hadenham Herts
Clard? Anne Alburg age 26 housemaid b. Busddon? Berks
Lucy Ann Bowden Nurse age 26? St Marylebone
http://www.londonancestor.com/iln/illustrated.htminteresting site - even have City of London School and other things that may be of use !
How come I only get Charwomen and Bankrupts for my relatives....


Annie