Hi Bob!
Oh really? I've never been a fan of my name after my mum told me I was named after a character from a horror film

Unfortunately I haven't gotten to visit Sophia's grave since just before Christmas. Some health issues going on at the moment so as soon as I'm fit enough I'll visit. If there was either a bauble, a little Merry Christmas or a pine cone on a stick at her grave that was us. I'm not too sure which we left her. I'm glad you got to visit. We always make sure the area is clear. I remember when I used to visit my mum and uncle when I was 15 (back in 2005), the big fir tree behind her gravestone was so much bigger than it is now. We often cut back branches as they covered her, and there was always had some ivy growing on it. I don't blame you for giving up driving. I'm not allowed to drive due to epilepsy, but sometimes when I see how others drive I'm quite thankful for that!
I realised it must have been Thomas who witnessed it as Malcolm died aged 2, 7 years before the murder.
Did Thomas ever mention his brother Joseph? He was a policeman and tragically died aged 32 in Romford high street after trying to stop a runaway horse. I visited Romford Cemetery with my mum and uncle nearly 2 years ago and as you walk into the chapel, there are displays of people buried within the cemetery that are a part of their "Lives Remembered Exhibition". Much to our surprise we saw Josephs face up there with a little information around him and his death. He has no gravestone, but the people featured in the exhibition have marble markers so his grave was easy to find using the map.
I don’t suppose you have any photos of Thomas at all please?
I hope that all makes sense.
Kirsty