hi erin !
i also have griffin-griffy-griffie links to kilmaley they moved to next parish kilnamona .
clare is very hard to research as no records are searchable on line there are some donated records though .
baptisms
http://www.igp-web.com/IGPArchives/ire/clare/churches/kilmaley-bap.txtthe lady who did list also did list for marriages which used to be online but disapeared 2 or 3 years ago ive tried to contact her with no success .
i had quick look at baptism list no luck for you i dont think .
it was the practice back then for the husband to marry in the wifes parish and move back to live in the husbands , onless he wed and got the family farm .
clare co library have a great genealogy link
http://www.clarelibrary.ie/eolas/coclare/genealogy/genealog.htmkilmaley graveyard inscriptions
http://www.clarelibrary.ie/eolas/coclare/genealogy/don_tran/graves/kilmaley_graveyard.htmjohn mayer donated the material to site
hes abook out on the parish
http://www.lulu.com/ search kilmaley
i contacted him by email he was able to send me two pages of material for my wifes family inc graves for free he also said hed meet up with me and show me where the graves were .
kilmaley publishes magazine (google) comes out i think every year they list some births deaths marriages i used to have one from several years ago which listed a lot i cant at mo find it .
make sure you search for husband and brides surnames on
http://www.clarelibrary.ie/eolas/coclare/genealogy/census_search_forms/index.htmits the search forms for 1841 1851 census when people wanted to claim old age pensions 1900s you may find siblings from there home parish who will list there parents and siblings
search by applicants name and applicants mothers maiden name (surnames)
good luck in your research