Hello Robert, you say
robert mayhew .bapt.6.10.1782 st.andrews. church,wissett. died.
16.2.1835 .at wissett, he maried mary spurling born, 13.9.1810.at burston.
This is not the correct Mary, he married Mary Spurling born 1782 in Burston, the marriage was also in Burston and she is with her father WIlliam in Burston in 1841 as his housekeeper.