I knew from the start the Boherbue and Cobh in one sentence is very odd. Boherbue sounds so specific, on the other hand, Cobh confirmed what my husband was so sure of.
It's not easy to find living descendants with a name like that. The gt grandchildren I met seem to know nothing more than just the name of their own grandparents. But I got a new lead, a granddaughter who had a small tree on ancestry in 2007. Now it's a matter of finding her ...
Thanks to all for the suggestions, maybe even the "ignorants" will remember if I throw some names at them.
Loes