Found this post when searching for Goodger / Goodyer in Sussex around Bury, Coldwaltham and Coates.
It looks like John Goodger died in 1840 and his widow Alice married James Sheppard on 8 Sep 1841 in Coates cum Burton. On 1851 census James Sheppard 43 b Coldwaltham, wife Alice 52 b Wisborough Green and son in Law Richard Standing 32 b Fittleworth are living at Coates. As the s-i-l is unmarried this looks like the term is being used for stepson. James is a gardener, Richard is a pauper receiving parish relief.
If Alice's first marriage was in 1810, looks like she might have knocked a few years off her age if the same one in Coates.
Can't find Alice in 1841, although I would expect her to be in Coates as it was only a few months before she married again.