Thanks everyone. My maiden name if Boehler, so the Bohler fits the best. My great grandfather stowed away on a ship from Baden Germany in 1872. His obit says he was the youngest of 7 children, but nowhere do we have who his mother, father, brothers or sisters were. The story goes that he was a soldier in the Franco-Prussia War and was having an affair with his superior officer's girlfriend. The officer found out and was coming for him so he left his home in the middle of the night and stowed away for America. Makes it really hard to track him back to his family and for some reason if anyone ever knew the names of his family members it was never passed down.
This gives me some direction! Thanks!