Hi Zoe this is the Family in 1851 Census Dunfermline
No Wife there but its is Ross.
Not in Dunfermline in 1861 Census
Piece: SCT1851/424 Place: Dunfermline -Fife Enumeration District: 7
Civil Parish: Dunfermline Ecclesiastical Parish, Village or Island: Dunfermline
Folio: 0 Page: 12 Schedule: 17
Address: 8 Bruce Street
    Surname   First name(s)   Rel   Status   Sex   Age   Occupation   Where Born   
    MURRAY   Ross   Head   W   M   36   Hawker Of Stoneware    Ireland - -        
    MURRAY   Mary A.   Dau   -   F   19       Ireland - -        
    MURRAY   Hugh   Son   -   M   16       Ireland - -        
    MURRAY   William   Son   -   M   12       Ireland - -        
    MURRAY   Rachal   Dau   -   F   6       Fife - Dunfermline 
These could be some of the Children in 1881 Census
1881 census    Dwelling:   11 New Row
   Census Place:   Dunfermline, Fife, Scotland
   Source:   FHL Film 0203520     GRO Ref    Volume 424    EnumDist 8    Page 9
   Marr   Age   Sex   Birthplace
Rachel M. DAVIE   W   37    F   Dunfermline, Fife, Scotland
   Rel:   Boarder (Head)
   Occ:   Worker In Rag Store
James MURRAY       1    M   Dunfermline, Fife, Scotland
   Rel:   Boarder Son
1881 Census   Dwelling:   12 Panmure Street
   Census Place:   Arbroath, Forfar, Scotland
   Source:   FHL Film 0203474     GRO Ref    Volume 272    EnumDist 8    Page 34
   Marr   Age   Sex   Birthplace
Mary Ann MURRAY   W   50    F   Ireland
   Rel:   Head
   Occ:   ((Housekeeper))
William MURRAY   U   23    M   Arbroath, Forfar, Scotland
   Rel:   Son
   Occ:   Shoemaker
Andrew MURRAY   U   19    M   Arbroath, Forfar, Scotland
   Rel:   Son
   Occ:   Post Office Clerk
Edward H. MURRAY   U   16    M   Arbroath, Forfar, Scotland
   Rel:   Son
   Occ:   Shoemaker
Francis J. MURRAY       9    M   Arbroath, Forfar, Scotland
   Rel:   Son
   Occ:   Scholar      
Could not find a death for Ross on Scotland Peoples site, pay to view site
After 1855
You could look for a death for Rachel & Mary Ann  this would give the parents names.
No Headstones in my index for Ross Murray
Norrie