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Re: Genealogists' most hated phrase
« Reply #126 on: Sunday 31 July 11 17:34 BST (UK) »
I would be very cautious of meeting up with ANYONE who I "met" on the internet.  I would NEVER go on my own.

we've met a few, some relatives, some not - all roughly our own  over-60s age group. We've usually invited them to lunch after a bit of to-ing and fro-ing, and it's been fine.

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Re: Genealogists' most hated phrase
« Reply #127 on: Sunday 31 July 11 17:35 BST (UK) »
Well, I've met up with people I met on the internet, and successfully.  The first one was when I went out to South Africa, on my own and my first ever visit to the country, to meet a lady I met via Genes Reunited, and we've met up again in both South Africa and England - we were both researching the same man, he's in my family tree and she lives on a farm once owned by him in the 1800's.  And the second was also via Genes Reunited, I think and resulted in a trip to Australia, although on this occasion my husband was with me - she was a distant cousin by marriage.  Plus I've contacted and met up with newly-discovered relations in this country (England), some when I was by myself and some with my husband.  Perhaps I'll make it out to Canada at some stage  ;D

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Re: Genealogists' most hated phrase
« Reply #128 on: Sunday 31 July 11 17:58 BST (UK) »
From grandfather's sister when I asked where her father was born "can't remember the name of the place but there were green hills and a river" :-\ since it was in Ireland that wasn't much of a clue  :'(

"Sorry the records were lost when the town hall burnt in 1853"- to query about records from 1920s  ???

From a researcher wanting information "it doesn't matter if it's for the right person my client is in Canada and won't know the difference" (they know now because about 6 months later they wrote to me directly  ;D )

"It's in a suitcase of my mother's that's under the guestroom bed" in response to asking for family information, photographs, etc. Would have thought it was a myth but 2 things have actually been produced from this suitcase  :P

"The family Bible gave names and dates and the places they came from in Ireland... but I burnt it after mother died" Anyone like to guess how hard it is to trace a family named Kelly from Ireland that went to New York City without details  :-\

"I met someone who said they're related to us the other day, they knew all the details on the family...no, I didn't get their name or phone number but they were buying dog food so I think they must have a dog"

"You never said you wanted to see photographs"

"Did I say that? I don't remember saying that."  >:(

"your information can't be right because my father told be something different" despite of the fact that I have 1) birth and marriage certificate giving birthplace and 2) father didn't own property until after child was born and 3) house was not built

Unfortunately all true but names have been left out to prtect the guilty  ;D
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Re: Genealogists' most hated phrase
« Reply #129 on: Sunday 31 July 11 22:09 BST (UK) »
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(one of my hated remarks is "I see you have his marriage, but he actually married a Mary, not a Jane" ... or variations on this)


Slightly off centre - but I was looking up a family on An****ry yesterday - and I found the said person had indeed been married to Mary - trouble is he was married five times - and all of them were Mary!!   And the dates and times of children's births were all over the place with various Mary's as mother!  No continuity at all - very disturbed marriage that was.      ;D ;D

Also Mother's place of residence given as Manchester - despite the fact that she was producing children quite regularly in Victoria Australia!! - dates and places of birth supplied!!   ::)
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Re: Genealogists' most hated phrase
« Reply #130 on: Monday 01 August 11 11:52 BST (UK) »
"Oh, but I don't want to have to pay...."

Now Auntie Cati is always one for getting as much as possible for nothing, and this site is excellent for look-ups - RootsChatters are so generous! - but there are times when you really do have to shell out...

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Re: Genealogists' most hated phrase
« Reply #131 on: Monday 01 August 11 13:11 BST (UK) »
one of my hated remarks is "I see you have his marriage, but he actually married a Mary, not a Jane" ... or variations on this


And equally hated is the silence that comes in response to that remark (made by me) ... said tree still has my grandfather married to completely the wrong woman!

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Re: Genealogists' most hated phrase
« Reply #132 on: Tuesday 16 August 11 07:48 BST (UK) »
I have had a couple of conversations recently along the lines of:

Oh yes - my brother/sister did our family tree a couple of years ago.  He/she got back to about 1100 - it took him/her about 3 months.

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Re: Genealogists' most hated phrase
« Reply #133 on: Tuesday 16 August 11 07:59 BST (UK) »
I have had a couple of conversations recently along the lines of:

Oh yes - my brother/sister did our family tree a couple of years ago.  He/she got back to about 1100 - it took him/her about 3 months.

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Re: Genealogists' most hated phrase
« Reply #134 on: Tuesday 16 August 11 20:38 BST (UK) »
When someone says "Are you sure you have the right person" when you have spent a long time finding out the evidence and mention 1 minor, minor discrepancy with the age or birthplace.

"How far have you got back" is annoying.

More annoying is "Found any royalty yet?" No I dont research my family tree for glory.

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