Hi Majm. Mary, born 1823, was the oldest child - I think.
James the father was born in 1803 which would make him 20 when she was born. There is no info on his death certificate. The belief is that he died suddenly of possibly a heart attack as he was driving a bullock train and was not found for several days and then he was only identified as Mr Thorpe. He was buried at Murrurrundi but his headstone is at Maitland Cemetery - not sure if his remains were moved but I would presume so. There is a headstone which has: James Thorpe died 2 Jan. 1858 aged 55 years. Jane, wife of above, died 1 Oct 1877 aged 72 years. Alexander Thorpe, son of above, died 10 Sept 1914 aged 74 years and his son, Clarence J. Born 8 Aug 1883, died 15 Aug 1883.
I also have Jane's death certificate, which says she was married in Paisley at 18 years of age but was born in Donegal, Ireland. Children are listed as 3 males, 7 females living, 2 females deceased - so I can already see I am short of 3 children. Back to the drawing board!!!
Frustrating! Maxene