Hi Nightnurse
Not sure where my mind is somtimes  

    I send you a message that i looked at two other trees and they had marriage details,meant to say they never had marriage details.. 
I found Harriet and George on romany genes they lived on mitcham common.  Than moved to wilford rd.
I have gone as far as Harriets Grandparents James cooper and Harriet And her father Levi cooper.
I'm on genes and Ancestry.   Just thought i say,you said you take photos of graves.  Been to queens today to take photos of graves who could be family?  And other names i have in my tree..  I have 3 photos of cooper graves from while back and found 3 more today. Hope i can fit them to my tree sometime.
  Thanks if you can help find marriage of Harriet and george.
jew