Hi,
I'm so grateful to everyone trying to help, thank you so much.
John Thorp(e) was married in 1828 in Weeley by licence and his age of 21 is that marked on the licence.
I did have the information of the 1851,1861,1871 censuses, but John's baptism isn't marked on Thorpe le Soken registers from 1796 till 1802.
Yes, there was a couple Henry and Sarah Thorpe who baptized their children in Thorpe: Abraham 1792, Harriett 1796, William 1801 and Sarah 1802. William is the one you mention Valda.
My only hope is that you suggest: a check of Weeley baptisms before 1804.
Regards,
Riboga