oh ok sorry I didn't know I wont put up any more personal details then, yes im registered on the gro and have messages everywhere on loads of different sites, am actually in the process of my local council adoption are helping me but I saw a previous message about a woman who lives in Buckinghamshire and says her husband being adopted there so I thought maybe it may be him as one of the names on my possible list is a man from Buckinghamshire, I don't know his adopted name yet, there is a lot of circumstances to his adoption so its so hard trying to find him, im trying every resource I can here x