Hi Debbie,
If you would like a link to Steve Gilbert's site, contact me privately.
In regard to the autosomal test - anything you have to offer in the way of advice would be appreciated. I have joined ISOGG, and through them the "DNA-Newbie" group on Yahoo; they are discussing the autosomal stuff at the moment, but I am really struggling to understand it.
Our closest Y-DNA match is a genetic distance 4 match which originated in Derbyshire - my ancestor was born in Barnsley, Yorkshire, so it looks very likely that we are related somewhere along the line. However, I have been advised that this could be anything from 7 - 20 generations back, so would probably not be any good for the autosomal test.
Tisy