Hi Genresearch,
In reply to your first question, we have a genetic distance 4 match to this person, whose name is Wood. This means that there are slight differences in the number of alleles on four markers out of 67 - a very close match, and according to the geneticists we are definitely related - most likely a common ancestor about 7 generations ago. We both did the deep clade test as well, and this has revealed that we both share the same subclade R1b1b2a1b4c1, L20. We also have more distant matches to many other people by the name of Wood or Woods, mostly from the counties of Cheshire and Derbyshire. There are other people by the name of Wood or Woods on all of the surname DNA projects we belong to, who belong to completely different haplogroups, and this is probably because of NPE's or the fact that surnames only came into use fairly recently. If we had only had a match to one person by the name of Wood, we would not have been so certain because of course this person may have been descended from someone who was illegitimate. The point of all of this however, is not so much the name but the fact that this person at least has a paper trail - we have nothing, which brings me to your next comment.
If you do not have a paper trail - in our case the father was not named on the birth certificate; the Barnsley Union Workhouse archives have been lost; the members of the family who may have known the truth are now deceased. Where do you go? DNA was our only option, and I am not sorry we have used it as now we have something to go on. The fact that the father may have been a person by the name of Wood is significant, as it gives some credence to the family legend which I will not go into here for privacy reasons. I also dispute your comment about DNA being an unproven aspect of genealogy. You will need to join some of the forums dealing with genetic genealogy to see what I mean.
Cheers,
Tisy