Wow! Thank you so much. It never occurred to me that Reine, the mother, would have Adele as a middle name, but it makes perfect sense, believe it or not, I'd searched for every Reine, Rene, Raine & Rain born in France with any surname, but with no luck.
Alfred Cuqu_melle is likely as Reine (the mother) was born around 1842 (according to the censuses) so the age would fit, I didn't think of searching in the free BMD for mis-spellings, I must be tired! Mind you, Reine had another daugter, after Adele, in around 1872 in Staffordshire, naughty Reine lol.
Thanks again, that gives me more structure for my searches, now I'll go & find out what happened to Victoria & Charles; that might give me more hints.
Janine