I have been looking around and found a Sarah Elsom born 1794 in Leyton, Essex. That would be the right time period for the first marriage in 1814. Parents are listed as Edward and Mary. The proximity of Leyton to the area of London that Sarah married in (all 3 times) makes me think that this is my Sarah's family. The fact that Edward and Mary also have a daughter recorded named Mary Ann (1785) is another clue. Sarah named her daughter, my ancestor, Mary Ann.
I have done a little search and not found a marriage for an Edward Elsom to a Mary in that area. I also looked for a birth for Edward there or close and found nothing. Would someone be willing to check for the marriage of Edward Elsom to Mary in Leyton or close by and find the date and place of the marriage, and her family name? Also, would you look for a birth for Edward Elsom in that area probably in the 1750's to 1765?
This forum is a great help for those of us who live "across the pond."
Thanks, Claire