Hi , I am beginning to wonder if I will ever be able to find Ben Hanton , circa 1785 -91 . I have now come to the conclusion that he was born in another county or country . Suffolk , London , Ireland or Scotland . 
Marriage in Upton gives him as "of this parish ", I agree he probably lived there but doubt he was  born there . The closest I came to finding a  Ben Hanton was Dickleborough 1794 , feasible , however that meant he had Christiana Tungate 7 months pregnant when he married her in Aug 1814 , their first son , also Ben,  was born in Oct 1814 . that would make him  20  his bride 24 . However the 1841 and the 1851 shows 5 years difference in ages and Ben being the elder partner 
I am so confused .