Hello Eleanor and a big welcome to Rootschat

I was not involved in this thread but the Jesse you are researching is one of the children of Jesse HARFORD and Elizabeth JONES. Here is his birth as it is listed in the Index:
Jesse HAVELL b 1863 Steiglitz - Jestion HAVELL and Elizabeth JONES # 12401
Jesse's marriage in NSW:
4301/1891 HARFORD JESSE GORDON ELLEN B GUNDAGAI
Their children { there may have been more after 1910 when the Index finishes}
15986/1892 HARFORD JUSTIN G JESSE ELLEN B GUNDAGAI
16152/1893 HARFORD WILLIAM H JESSE ELLEN B GUNDAGAI
3758/1901 HARFORD ELLEN M JESSE ELLEN B GUNDAGAI
Jesse's death:
6648/1914 HARFORD JESSE H JESSE H ELIZABETH ST LEONARDS
Ellen's death:
25697/1936 HARFORD ELLEN BARBARA DAVID AGNES FOULDS PARRAMATTA
Son William's marriage:
15355/1920 & 15356/1920 HARFORD WILLIAM H KULMAR DOROTHY B V SYDNEY
His death:
3160/1964 HARFORD WILLIAM HAROLD JESSE ELLEN SYDNEY
Ellen's marriage:
16939/1921 RUTLEDGE FREDERICK D HARFORD ELLEN M WOOLLAHRA
Regards
Alison