Hi Helen,
I hope you find something. The last person that I recomended the site to was a Canadian lady. She contacted me afterwards to say that not only had she found her 'lost soul' but he was a 1st World War hero, which no one in her family knew about. In addition there was a column & half of reading & a photo of him too. She was absolutely delirious about it all!
Hope you have as much joy!
Regards;
Derek