Hi Kate
Like you, we've had visitors for 2 days - so limited research this week. The William Horace Durham Ashwin many claim as part of Martin & Emma's family is definitely NOT their son. He was born in 1868 to Elizabeth & William Charles Durham Ashwin, reg: 1868/13408. William Charles Durham Ashwin was born in J-S 1/4 1840 in Evesham,Worcestershire so could well be a relative somewhere along the line. Durham seems to have been a popular second name in many branches of the Ashwin family back then.
The child many seem to leave off the tree who IS Martin & Emmas son is James Ernest who was born in 1873 Reg: 1873/17554. He died in 1875 aged 3yrs. Reg: 1875/459.
People seem to have Lily on their tree as Lily Jane, but her birth (V6d p18) & marriage((1886/563)have her registered as Lily Fiddian Ashwin.
I've noticed comments about how few Ashwin names there are in NZ phone books etc. Not surprising when one takes into account that in Martin & Emmas big family, only 7of them were sons, and 3 of those either died young (2), or had no children ( Leonard Thomas). Of the 4 who did marry, Theodore Craven had 5 sons from 2 marriages, 1 of the 2 boys from his NZ marriage dying young. Then he died at 39yrs in 1893 in South Australia leaving a wife & 3 sons there, one of whom later married in NZ!! Manley John 's marriage produced 4 sons, 1 dying young, and at least one other ending up in Qld. Charles Avery had 1 son who died when 45yrs old, and Darcy Durham had 1 son, and that's it. So in one generation, the family was reduced down to six grandsons who could carry on the family name. Of the 7 sons in Martin & Emmas family Theodore Craven, Martin Edward,Darcy Durham, James Ernest & Cecil Stanley all died young, the oldest being Martin Edward at 43yrs, while the girls seemed to mostly live to a ripe old age!! Strange what genetics can show up.
There is mention of 3 of Martin & Emmas children dying young - James Ernest, and Clara Chapmen were 2 and Marian Emma died at 18yrs. Did Martin mention in his letters which children the 3 were??
Have had a bit of luck filling in the gap on my tree around Jane Ratcliff's details. She married William Stuart Kearne ( Born in England) and had 2 children, Florence Effie, born 12th Oct 1886, and John Stuart born 28th Sep 1888, both born at Riverside, California. Jane is a widow by the 1900 census. In all later census records, Jane is living with her daughter and her family, though when John Stuart was drafted for military service, he was partially supporting Jane from his earnings as a bookkeeper. Jane died at Riverside California in 1956.
Have not had time to do much more - oh yes - my knowledge of the Wheeler family apart from Elizabeth & her parents being Richard & Sarah? is nil.
Is what I am putting on here any use to you?? Please let me know if it is data you already have, as you are an old hand with the Ashwins while I have been covering all 8 families in my late husband's pedigree chart, and am only starting to really focus on one family at a time.
Hope you have a great weekend with your family
Kind regards
Marie