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Re: Utter frustration!
« Reply #27 on: Wednesday 02 March 11 22:46 GMT (UK) »
Mrs T thanks for your post. 

Can I add that when I thought we never had that picture my then boss said to me but you have the memories in your head.  So very true.  My mother's parents didn't have a wedding photo but remembered the day well.  They married on boxing day as it saved money as they had left over ham etc. How sensible that is compared with the megabuck weddings that some have now.

But yes if you can get that photo I'd do it while you can. Or if not I'm trying to write happy memories from my childhood and since down to go with the family tree.


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« Reply #28 on: Thursday 14 April 11 22:45 BST (UK) »
Well, I can honestly say it was well worth the wait - even if it was driving me nuts!

Spent the day with my parents going through some photos and other stuff I'd never seen before. Everything is now annotated and I have a mammoth amount of things to scan.  My older brother has just started to 'jump on my bandwagon' so to speak, and has realised the importance of these treasures.
He asked to borrow some photos for scanning last week, and my Mum told him he could only borrow them if he PROMISED to return them ready for my visit today  ;D

Apart from photos, I now have a couple of letters written by my grandfather to my grandmother in 1933, his monogrammed silver cigarette case (which hubby has promised to clean up for me), and birthday cards sent by my grandfather to his sister from 1920-1925, and still in beautiful condition!

Best of all, I spent a lovely day with my Mum & Dad, reminiscing and sharing memories.

 :) :) :) :) :)

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Hales: Navenby, Lincs
Lidbetter: Sussex
Burns: Birmingham/Weston-super-Mare
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Re: Utter frustration!
« Reply #29 on: Friday 15 April 11 03:05 BST (UK) »
Oh Mrs. T. That is fantastic! I have goose bumps for you. Enjoy & I hope to see some of your new finds on the restoration board getting spiffed up.
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Re: Utter frustration!
« Reply #30 on: Friday 15 April 11 16:06 BST (UK) »
That's brilliant news. I think we were all holding our breath for you that nothing would happen in the meantime.
My dad who is now 89 decided he would tear some things up (unknown to me) that I had wanted for our family history collection and then one day he says ' I don't think I should have thrown those things away'. What things were those says I  to dad. My next inward words were 'aarrgghh!' Since then I've removed things to our house  surreptitiously and only bring them back if he asks for them.
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Re: Utter frustration!
« Reply #31 on: Friday 15 April 11 23:14 BST (UK) »
A great result, but what was it with my family and no notepaper to hand?
We initially got excited when we saw writing on the reverse of some of the photos, thinking they would confirm identities and dates - only to read messages from one family member to another e.g. "Have had to pop out. Father requires his dinner at 1 o'clock prompt" or "have gone to ...... and plan to be back around 6 o'clock". Made us laugh, though!

The most poignant photo was one of me, taken when I was 3 weeks old. The day my Mum was told she was pregnant with me was the same day she was diagnosed with TB. She spent 8 months in the hospital sanitorium.

When I was born I was whisked away - she wasn't allowed to hold me because of the risk of infection/all other things medical.She had an illicit hug, aided and abetted by a sympathetic nurse, when I was 2 weeks old. I went home to my Dad, brother and grandparents 3weeks after the birth, my Mum had to stay for a further 6 weeks.  My godparents visited my Dad the next day and took that photo of me, and wrote a message on the back as if it were from me.  Dad drove from Kent to the hospital in London soon after with the photo, so my Mum could at least have that. I'd never seen the photo before.

Looking at it 54 years later induced a moist-eyed hug. ;)

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Hales: Navenby, Lincs
Lidbetter: Sussex
Burns: Birmingham/Weston-super-Mare
Gray/Stocks: Weston-super-Mare
Hayden
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Bubb: Kent
Ward: Notts

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Re: Utter frustration!
« Reply #32 on: Friday 15 April 11 23:41 BST (UK) »
The most poignant photo was one of me, taken when I was 3 weeks old. The day my Mum was told she was pregnant with me was the same day she was diagnosed with TB. She spent 8 months in the hospital sanitorium.

When I was born I was whisked away - she wasn't allowed to hold me because of the risk of infection/all other things medical.She had an illicit hug, aided and abetted by a sympathetic nurse, when I was 2 weeks old. I went home to my Dad, brother and grandparents 3weeks after the birth, my Mum had to stay for a further 6 weeks.  My godparents visited my Dad the next day and took that photo of me, and wrote a message on the back as if it were from me.  Dad drove from Kent to the hospital in London soon after with the photo, so my Mum could at least have that. I'd never seen the photo before.

Looking at it 54 years later induced a moist-eyed hug. ;)



That brought a tear to my eye too Mrs. T.  :'( What a perfectly wonderful keepsake - & what a kind & generous thing for your godparents to have done.

It might be a wonderful little return keepsake to mount copy to a card & send it to the godparents on your birthday (if you're fortunate enough to still have them in your life.)  :)
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Re: Utter frustration!
« Reply #33 on: Friday 15 April 11 23:58 BST (UK) »
A lovely idea RedMystic. Embarrassingly, I just realised the couple weren't my godparents but my Mum's cousin and her husband. The two men had the same name and I'd got a bit muddled  :-[ However, my Mum's cousin is still with us, and I think I just might do what you suggested.

Thank you. :-*
Rogers: Sussex
Sanders/Saunders: Brenchley, Kent
Hales: Navenby, Lincs
Lidbetter: Sussex
Burns: Birmingham/Weston-super-Mare
Gray/Stocks: Weston-super-Mare
Hayden
Aldridge and Aldridge/Hayden
Bubb: Kent
Ward: Notts