Hi kingskerswell
Thanks for you help the Robert Truesdale I am after was married to a Sarah Louisa,
They were buried in the Church of Ireland church in Castlewellan, I was able to find the family in the 1901 & 1911 census in Clarkill, Castlewellan. the only Sarah that I found may match was Sarah Stretton
as their family started in 1885 I would expect the marriage to be about 1883-84.
The marriage of Sarah Stretton and the marriage of a Robert Truesdale has the same Vol Number & Page Number and both Banbridge but different dates.
Their headstone lists Roberts mother, Robert, his wife Sarah Louisa, and some of their children.
The war grave memorial for their son William justs lists his parents as Robert & Sarah Truesdale