A most interesting Elmhirst family tree.
Can now understand why Aileens place of birth is given as India on 1911.
Father Charles Elmhirst commanded the Mysore Div 1 A from 1875 to 1879.
Its going to be difficult to pin down a family vault for this family, members being scattered in Ontario, Yorkshire/Lincolnshire England besides Australia. Can well understand how Aileens burial place has never been discovered. Would imagine it was never intended to be, especially as her childrens whereabouts and names were also changed. Wonder if it was a medical problem that Aileen had, not necessarily a mental one, there have been cases where children were removed from mothers with a certain condition which would rather not mention on here.
Obviously first place to look for her burial must be Ireland, her name has been altered somehow.
Not much help, but am fascinated by this story.
Brionne.