Hi Nick & Andy ,
I too have a Berkshire MAY (and BERRY) connection .
First definite documented sighting is Charles MAY B abt 1832 at East Ilsley .
He's on 1851 Census as Grocer's Assistant on Cheap St , Thatcham (H0107/1685/F74/Pg6) .
He married a few years later (1855) at St Mary's , Marylebone , to Jane Berry (b 1834 Ludgershall , Wilts , d 1864) His father is shown as Henry MAY , Carpenter .
They had 2 children , William John (1861) & Thomas (1864) both Places of Birth given as 1 Bishops Yard , Charles St , St George Hanover Square . Sadly , the 1861 Census for this area appears to have gone astray . Jane's untimely death (Dec) was not connected with Thomas' birth (March).
By Feb 1871 he's re-married ... to Jane's sister Elizabeth BERRY ! ( b abt 1842 Thacham ,Berks ... or Tidworth , Wilts) . Their first born is Frederick MAY (b 1871) , place of birth given as 60 Suffolk St , Poplar - altho' they are not there a few months later at the time ofthe census. His occupation at this time given as "Foreman of Dairy" . Three more children appear (Emma 1875 , Louisa 1876 , Ada 1880) and all of these appear in 1881 at 27 Farrance St , Poplar - where he describes himself as "Commercial Clerk (Coal & Coke)".
No further documented sightings of Charles MAY after 1881 .
He was my GrtGrtGrandfather . William John was my GrtGrandfather (d 1916) .
Please let me know if you think there may be any connections or if you have any further info on any of these !
Cheers
Andy