Hi
Gel? Can only be the sense of humour, natural charm, quick-wittedness, "born" personality, and VERY modest.

Then there is me. Stubborn, OCD, terse, unedoocatted and illiterut.
I'm going to "tidy up" what I found about RevFr HJH.
I noticed that he (poss) wasn't educated at Oxford but at his father's London.
Also, poss connection? Railway.
HarrowOnHill to Rickmansworth is direct.
Harrow/Wealdstone to HemelH/Boxmoor.
Harrow to Ruislip/Uxbridge
ps Don't forget that most people could not read/write let alone work out to the month how old they were.
Ray