how do i find a grave

[Steviemurf]

Hello 'Never give up'

Unfortunately we will not be able to mark the grave 'officially'.  This is because our brother was not buried alone. It was custom and practice in those days to bury infants together and because there are others in the grave cut, we can't have a headstone or plaque etc.  But we can put flowers down.  Also, as in the Peter's entry, we could put a small paving slab down and put an 'official' vase on it, which, considering what is there, would not be out of place.  However, yes, you can't do as you like, so we'll see.

Hello Peter

Thanks for the additional posting, I we'll consider the paving slab and vase.

Kind regards

Steve

[pippy17]

Hi all
Its fantastic that we found our brothers grave I know my brother steve has thanked you all for your contributions and now I would like to say thankyou so much everybody that took the time to read this thread and if it wasnt for people like yourselves nobody would get anywhere in the world, you!ll never know what this means to our family and its all down to you guys and i thank you all from the bottom of my heart xx