here is a bit of luck here is toms father with their son
1891
RG12/2633/76/17
john cocking age 74. b. gringley,notts. occ. licensed victualler. head(wid)
thomas age 33. b. gainsborough. occ. joiner. son(mar)
phoebe age 29. b. easby,lincs. daughter in law
ralph age 6. b. gainsborough. grandson
frank.c. age 4. b. ditto. grandson
ann smithson age 15. b. woodsetts,notts. occ. general domestic servant.
joffre.w.troop age 79 or 29. b. beckingham. occ agr.lab.(mar)
living at;high street,beckingham,notts