hi
got to tunbridge wells cemetery but could not see any of the graves you listed; it's a big cemetery, but it's not difficult to find the right section; tracing the way the graves run is tough; lots of stones, especially in B12, but v few numbered anywhere; if one has a LOT of time one could take each query to the (v helpful) office staff, who would do their best to help; i spent an hour or two wandering, but sadly came up with none; i did find a gilbert grave in C4 (sophia d 1914, and her husband), and can email it (using personal as images are large) if you want; also a site pic of section C9; sorry for otherwise failure; david