
Another wife for this son of John CATES, surgeon and yet we haven't found birth details for Charles Collier CATES .... but it could well be Sydney as per Alison's post.
1. So there's a marriage back sometime BEFORE 1865, somewhere but not sure where
2. Ireland in 1865 to Miss Flood
3. New Zealand in 1873 to Miss Buchanan
4. Victoria in1879 to Miss O'Brien
5. NSW in 1888 to Miss Woodland
Perhaps Terry has a plastic card and may have some spare pennies he may be interested to learn that plastic cards can be used to obtain immediate image of the 1879 marriage. Alison has provided the reference number
WELL FOUND ALISON

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https://online.justice.vic.gov.au/bdm/index-search?action=getHistIdxSearchCriteriaINFO usually found on Victoria marriages is fantastic (Here's a snip from the RChat Resources Board)
Marriages
Date and place of marriage;
name and surnames;
conjugal condition, whether bachelor or spinster, widow or widower,
stating date of decease of former wife or husband;
children by each former marriage;
birthplace;
occupation;
age;
residence (present and usual);
parent's names of each party (including mother's maiden name) and occupation of father;
signatures of the parties and witnesses;
signature of Minister. Prior to 1963 the date of termination of previous marriages of the parties is also shown.